Some Relationship Boosters for Couples


This was an old photo of my wife and me taken during her birthday on Nov. 20, 1995.

This was an old photo of my wife and me taken during her birthday on Nov. 20, 1995.

Here are some real true-to-life experiences of blissful couples that are worth sharing because of the reason that they simply work. Take them from the horse’s mouth so-to-speak and learn to live happily ever after.

I got them from browsing through different websites and hence copy-pasted them in my file. I think they are useful and relevant all the time, and therefore, worth sharing. Here they are for you and me.

Attack the Issue

“On my wedding-invitation RSVP cards, I left space for guests to write their favorite wedding wisdom. The tidbit that rings truest after almost nine months of marriage is: ‘Attack the issue, not each other.’ How it works: If my husband and I disagree about something, we stay focused on the issue and skip the personal put-downs.” — Melissa Gitter Schilowitz, 31, Metuchen, New Jersy, USA

Share Hobbies

“My grandmother insisted that I learn how to play golf. ‘If your husband loves to play, you can go along and spend hours together,’ she said. So I took lessons, and now my husband and I hit the links once a month. We both love the game and are thrilled to share a hobby, even when we spend half an hour looking for my out-of-bounds balls!” — Aimee Borders, 27, Houston, Texas, USA

Tabletop Trick

“My aunt told me that if I’m running late when it’s my turn to make dinner, just set the table. That way my husband thinks he’ll be eating any minute, so he doesn’t start complaining, which buys me some time. It’s a silly trick that sounds straight out of the 1950s, but I have to admit that I’ve tried it a few times in the three years I’ve been married — and it works!” — Dawn Clayton, 34, Holdrege, NE

Boob-Tube Brilliant Turns

“Because my husband is such a remote-control freak, my mom suggested that we have ‘my turn’ TV nights. That means three nights a week I get to hold the remote and watch whatever I want, and on the other nights it’s his turn to hold the remote and watch whatever he wants. Now when he starts flipping through the channels, it doesn’t get on my nerves like it used to.” — Angela Clayton, 27, Odenton, MD

Pop the Question

“My sister-in-law passed this helpful hint on to me, and it has served me well for our five years of wedded bliss: ‘Marriage is not mind reading, so ask your spouse what he/she wants and believe what he/she says.'” — Clare Graca, 27, Dallas

Nix the Nit-Picking

“Before I said ‘I do,’ my mom (who’s been married to my dad for 55 years) told me to take out a piece of paper and write down the top three things that bugged me about my husband-to-be. Then she told me to forget the things on that list and forgive him for not being flawless. Once you make a commitment this big, she explained, you can’t let petty things get in the way. In our eight years of marriage, my husband and I have had two kids, tackled cross-country moves and started two businesses — and so far, so great.”– Rebecca Hart Blaudow, 31, Jacksonville, FL

Space Smarts

“Always have separate closets, my best friend told me. It may seem silly, but I listened to her and made sure to find a one-bedroom apartment with two closets (mine being the larger, of course). Now my husband and I each have our own private space, and we respect that: If he wants to keep his shoes in one huge heap or leave his dirty clothes in a pile on the floor, the mess doesn’t bother me a bit!” — Patricia Bontekoe, 26, Lake Hiawatha, NJ

Agree to Disagree

“Before we got married, my minister told my husband and me, ‘You are two imperfect people making an imperfect union, and that’s wonderful.’ This advice made me ditch my belief that in a happy marriage, the couple always agrees. My husband and I have learned to appreciate our differences (yes, even differences of opinion!); in fact, we encourage them because we realize now that those differences are what makes each of us unique and special.” — Beth Swanson, 28, Chicago

Comic Relief

“Before I headed down the aisle, my stepfather told me to always laugh and never take myself too seriously. After four years of marriage, I know that this trick works. My husband and I often play practical jokes on each other and always try to crack each other up, even in the middle of an argument. Hey, if one person laughs, a fight tends to fizzle, doesn’t it?” — Lisa Giassa, 31, Bogota.

About Maxim Sense

I hope to write for a cause someday but for now all I wanted really is to write for a cost and I haven't started yet, or better still, nobody wants to pay me :-)
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2 Responses to Some Relationship Boosters for Couples

  1. Terry says:

    this is an excellent post! every one should read this that is contemplating a relationship

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    • Maxim Sense says:

      I think these personal testimonies will certainly help all of us. No relationship is perfect but there is always a way or two to make it work in a way that will make us realize we have to love each other like we did it for the first time and keep the relationship like we had dreamed about it.

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